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Let It Be

It is what it is… until you make it more. Are you churning over your circumstances or perhaps something someone else said to or about you?  Do you look at your physical shape,  your bank account or you home and don’t like what you see?  Are you just unhappy with your lot in life? Dissatisfaction is an attitude that makes whatever you are going through worse than it is.  It’s a judgment and a curse.  Feeling bad about anything just makes you feel worse. And it’s a choice you’re making.  We all do. Of course you could be sitting there wondering how you could possibly be happy about being out of a job, not being able to pay the rent or dealing with illness or injury. I’m not suggesting that you should be.  If you are stressing or struggling with the circumstances however you are making a choice to do so. When you choose to allow those circumstances, no matter how “bad” they feel to you, to be nothing more than what they are they lose the power they are holding over you. Do you really want what feels so bad to you to control you?  I doubt it.  (Unless you live for drama but that’s a subject we’ll talk about later.) Allowing your circumstances  to be just another experience  neutralizes their power over you.…