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There Will Always Be Those Times

Try as we will to be stronger, more resilient, happier and focused on our blessings we all have times when we’re not. We do our best to keep our focus on the positive but we’re human and far from perfect at anything we do. What do you do when that wave of pain sneaks up behind you and crashes over your head?  What do you do when you can’t get to a positive place? I’ve  been writing about this journey of crashing waves for nearly 9 years.  My thought has always been that if I share the worst life has given me and live to write another day then perhaps someone reading it will realize they can get through whatever they are going through too. I’ve lost the big job, my financial security and my husband to cancer.  But I’m still here and doing the best that I can.  I’m not living the life I would prefer to but I’m doing fine.  There isn’t a day though that goes by that I don’t miss talking to Jack. I miss his voice, his laugh, my hand in his.  And there are times when no matter how much I try to rise above my pain I can’t.  Do you know the feeling? We do our best but its important that we when we can’t get to a…