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  • Author: Cheryl L Maloney

Choosing Differently

We’ve all heard it and I know I’ve argued it a time or two… If you keeping doing the same thing you’re going to get the same results.  Why do we keep repeating the exact same thing when even a tiny shift in our approach could make all the difference? Are you approaching the concerns you’ve had for years the same way you always have?  Are you trying to control someone or something that you have no control over?  Are you ready to try something different? I, for one, have been a worrier for most of my life.  All that worrying though didn’t keep us financially sound, it didn’t keep Jack from dying and it certainly drained the joy out of our lives. I used to pride myself in being able to bounce back from stress and be happy all within a day. That all ended when the multiple challenges overwhelmed me.  I found myself alone, Jack had died, and honestly lost. It’s been nearly 3 years since my husband passed and I can’t say there has been day since then that I’ve been able to sustain any amount of happiness. What I have been doing is what I’ve been doing for so long that I didn’t realize it wasn’t working. I just thought that was what my life was now. Then I woke up. …